We have all
tried to love and at a point the worse happened. Break ups are more common now
than ever. The current generation acting gangster and emotionless and no one is
ready to accept the wrong. No one is ready for the responsibility of dating. We
are simply youngsters trying the bigger man stuff. We definitely likely to fail
till our minds mature up to the tune of love and relationship. Many young
people are after sex and covering there acts in the name of relationship. At
the age of 17-25yrs is a great transformation in everyone’s life. The fear of
academic performance, drugs, your partner, cash in your pocket and one more
depression. This is the highest percentage, the other have no where to pick up
from, no idea of there future nor fear of what will happen tomorrow, most are
street kids and orphans in the society. There is the other group, the rich,
despite their performance there is something solid their mum or dad has for
them when they grow up. All this factors determine how one behaves and how he
or she treats the partner. Basically how
one was brought up and what he or she been exposed too determine.
Love is a
strong mutual feeling you both have for each other of being associated and
being the favorite story of the other. This comes with loyalty commitment and
transparency. Teens are not ready for this as it requires mind and emotions
rather than peer pressure, lust, love of money
and popularity. What tells you
who you love and who you should date? I guess time plays the role, eventually
time tells you who you can`t avoid, who you can count on and who is worth the
trust. We fall in love with what we are told on texts, what we offered by our
partners. Some have a different view of love. Being offered cash incase. This
is because that`s what been inadequate in your life, but you need something
more than that. It`s childish how we are lured and our emotions bought with
money and other little stuff just like little kids being lured with a sweet.
All that makes sense right now won`t make sense when you grow up. My dad tells
me “every persons who asks you for something has his own reasons and a benefit
after, what will you gain yourself?” love is more than money, it`s a team of
two. Someone you can cling on and build an empire with. It`s a future, don`t
take it that light.
Love is
commitment and sacrifice, it sounds tiresome but is one of the best thing. You
have ever Imagined of having a friend you could tell all your fears and feel
more comfortable and secure? Someone you would call right now asking for his
help and will fight with you till the end without any favor in return? We just
feel proud helping who we love, full of energy and determination. Love is all
about passion for your partner. Having a strong emotion that you can barely control
or hide. The attachment and trust you build with each other without forcing or
requesting, it`s simply mutual. With love it`s easy to forgive and easy to
correct. Do you do the same to the one
you love? Do you even love the one you love.
My biggest
fear is falling in love and in my bucket list one of my desires is falling in
love. But the fear is falling in love with the wrong person. We all have been
hurt and that`s the worst thing bout love. Heartbreaks are common in my country
such that anyone walking in town with his or her partner might have “mtaachana
tu” (you`ll break-up) being shouted on them. I don`t know where we
ending but we need a different turn. Dating has been a complete joke and almost
everybody out there is ready to date for fun, then they will date the serious
ones. Our actions are costing other souls while we are making jokes of them and
how we never give a damn. Other are after how many women they sleep with.
Ladies are after how many men she knows or how superior are your men. We
loosing it and this will be a problem to us soon. All gets faded when you realize
the person you lived for and always avoided to break her heart is the one who
turned the tables against you. This is someone you gave your all, it`s like
that`s the thank you she gave and walked away without acting like she care.
After this everything looses it`s taste and nothing makes anymore. The stories
you heard about break ups and thought they were myths are now on your side and
you just adding more words to the stories. This is where you hate yourself and
now depression, drug abuse, sexual abuse, suicide and such incidences happen
because of not accepting yourself because of someone playing with your
feelings.
Most of us
fall in love with a friend we just met just because of their looks or how he or
she behaved when you meet, but it comes a time when someone is tired 0f playing
fake and you have to learn the new partner you had hurriedly given your trust so soon and invested your
expectations in him or her. This damages your thought and emotion, some quit
love others grow to protect their emotions too an overrated standard cause of
the fear that lives in them.
Love is a
strong feeling and can cause a lot in a person and the whole generation at
large. We should all grow up and try other things to play with rather than
other people`s emotions. We should trust our intuitions and protect what we
can. The pain caused isn’t overrated and the damage is never talked about. Just
be strong a little bit and take the wheel, it`s your life and everything has
it`s time and signals. Read the signals, take your time and trust your inner
you will have less to regret. Rushing to love just because your friends are
dating is dangerous. We all have different stories and every chapter has a
different topic, be young and enjoy life, time has everything planned for you.
